“Life is too important to be taken seriously”. Oscar Wilde
Nothing kicks off a cooler autumn season like a good costume party!
Vibrant eye-catching costumes, colourful cocktails, lively music, delicious food and let’s not forget the most important ingredient…your fabulous fun hungry guests!
So now you’re wondering: how do you throw an easy, fun and disaster free party at home? I love entertaining at home, so I definitely have some tips for you.
I usually host a few parties a year and I love exploring different themes for each of them, anything from a classic Mexican fiesta, a spooky Day of the Dead, to a sophisticated Great Gatsby!
Forget an occasional moan from a few about having to dress up, as I found, everyone loves it! You just need to break through the ‘I can’t be bothered’ attitude and usually the unwilling ones end up having the most fun!
Plan ahead – when and who
I love the planning, but I love the shopping for decorations and costumes even more.
First of all I plan a list of guests and send invitations way ahead to ensure everyone has enough time to make their own arrangements, e.g. getting a nanny for their kids. I usually set a deadline for everyone to come back to me within 2-3 weeks which still proves to be challenging for a few. As a host you do need enough time to plan the rest of the party that not everyone always understands.
There always be a few that will just ignore your invite or those that will let you know the answer a day before the party that they can’t make it… Forget those, they never considered coming to your party in first place. It only shows little consideration for the host’s efforts and funds already spent on food and drinks.
Decorations and costumes shopping
I love shopping for decorations and spending days researching tons of websites looking for bargains.
Here are my favourite websites to shop on budget.
PARTY DELIGHTS
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Drinks
I like to plan the food and drinks accordingly to the theme. I would have tones of margaritas for a Mexican fiesta and all types of martini for a great Gatsby party. I also tend to get a lot of disposable plates and reusable plastic cutlery and all type of glasses, wine, champagne, beer and etc. rather than glass items.
I find Amazon a great source of party suppliers.
Setting up different alcohol ‘stations’ is a fab idea and helps everyone to find something they like.
I usually have a wine ‘station’, champagne, gin with plenty of fresh herbs and fruits, vodka, tequila, beers and a cocktail bar with all sorts of other spirits (rum, martini, brandy, liqueurs and many more).
My personal favourite add-ons are fresh herbs. This is something out of the box for most people, since they normally think of fruits first. However, herbs take your cocktails from average to deliciously unforgettable.
I’ve invested in a few cocktails books and I always encourage my guests to experiment with their cocktails. This has always been a great source of fun!
Food
A party is sure to become stale if you serve the same kind of snacks all night long like peanuts, crisps and plain old pretzels. Throw in some dips, set a cheese and charcuterie board and serve some complementary fruits and nuts to go along with it.
Serving party food like cocktail sausages, mini sausage rolls or mini pork pies is also a great idea. These are super easy to prepare and take only a few minutes.
I usually serve ‘proper’ food a couple of hours into the party to allow late comers to join in. This could be anything from a barbequed mix of meats to a Mexican selection of fajitas and tacos.
Late night pizza is also not a bad idea!
Music
A mix of current hits with some classic throwback tunes makes for a great party playlist. I tend to play music that matches the theme of my party like a bit of Frank Sinatra for the great Gatsby.
Set the mood
The right decorations, candles and twinkle lights always elevate the party mood.
Games
We have a fussball table at home which usually becomes the centre of attention after a few drinks. The darts board is also a great idea.
I love dancing – therefore I do have quite an impressive selection of Wii dance games that always come on once everyone is in the mood to cut a few shapes.
Groupon is great to get great deals on lots of party games.
And who doesn’t like to have at least one drinking game like beer pong?!
Feeling ready to host the party of the year? Let me know in the comments below.
Amazing post and great outfit! You are so gorgeous!
Wish you a lovely christmas time, Elisa
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Thank you Elisa! And you too beautiful 😘
Have a very happy Sunday, my dear <3
xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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Thanks Rena. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday xx
An invitation at a party from you must be such a win! I see you are not only a beautiful but also wonderful and generous host! Thanks for sharing your tips and I love you in your Gatsby-Look.
xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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What a brilliant party idea! You look amazing!
-Ashley
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OMG This is absolutely stunning. You look so gorgeous in that dress and all of details are perfect. I can’t stop watch your photos, because I love them so much.
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ah thank you so much!! you are the sweetest.xx
This is such a fun party theme! Your costume looks amazing! Thanks for sharing your hosting tips!
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Thanks Jill! Have a great week beautiful xx
You look very grand mademoiselle!
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Thank you beautiful xx
Your outfit is absolutely amazing, you look wonderful in this dress! Thanks for sharing these tips!
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thank you beautiful! xx
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Perfect tips for the upcoming holiday season! You look fabulous by the way!
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thank you sweetie! xx
This great Gatsby look is so pretty!
X Merel
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I do love a bi of gatsby! xx
You must enjoyed a lot! All seems fantastic.
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ah thank you! I do love throwing themed parties. So much fun decorating the house xx
This looks awesome and like so much fun!!!
Xo, Kelsey
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Happy that you enjoyed the post! Have a great week beautiful xx
Looking absolutely stunning dear! Love the gorgeous look.
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Thank you Jess! Have a great start to the week xx
Love this fun post. Your outfit was amazing and the decor was so much fun. Great tips on how to pull it all together.
xx Jenifer
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Thank you Jenifer! Glad you enjoyed the post xx
It’s so cool to host a themed party! You look so beautiful in that dress! I’m totally loving those 1920 vibes.
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Thank you Andreea! I do love that decade and all the glamour. the party was fantastic. Xx
Wow what an amazing outfit, thanks for all the tips.
xoxo
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you welcome beautiful! I love throwing parties and sharing the tips.Enjoy your Sunday xx
I love the idea of throwing a party at home. It is so cool that you had a themed party! Your outfit is gorgeous. It is so important to plan ahead of time. last thing you want is to scramble at the last minute. It is always cool to see how people put together decor as well. Thanks for sharing!
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I couldn’t agree more Nancy. I have at least two themed parties every year. a good theme always brings more fun and laugh. xx
A great way to save money and have good fun
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I couldn’t agree more! Xx
This is such a fun party idea! Your dress is amazing! Looking so hot and elegant!
Wonderful Post! Have a great day!
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Thank you beautiful! Have a great weekend xx
Oh wow your outfit looks utterly incredible; that embellished headband is the perfect finishing touch! Fabulous!
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Thanks Gabrielle!! I can’t get enough of Gatsby theme xx
So much planning goes into hosting a party like this but it’s so worth it.
I love the games you’ve showed here! Love playing!
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Very true. It can be time consuming but I do love it and the party was so worth it xx
I’m totally loving those 1920 vibes! You looks stunning in that dress and it’s a great theme for a party. Your decoration is fabulous too.
xx Simone
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Thank you Simone! Probably my fave theme so far for the house party. I do love the glamour of the 20’s xx
Great Gatsby is one of my favorite dress codes ever! Would love to organize this kind of party one day! Great tips!
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Thanks Anna! I definitely recommend, my guests absolutely loved the theme!! Xx
Wowww what a beautiful look for a wonderful party … love ♥️everything about it! Have a blessed weekend ahead Gorgeous one!
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Thank you Mia! Have a great weekend beautiful xx
You look fabulous, sound like you had fun time
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It was a wonderful party! Xx
You look amazing!
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Thank you! Happy Saturday xx
Oh I’m loving the Great Gatsby Movie – such a favorite of mine!
And the idea for a party is just perfect – you look amazing in your costume ♥
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Thank you Tina! Xx
This is such a fun party idea!
Jennifer
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Thanks Jennifer! Xx
A superb nostalgic demonstration of the “Golden Years”…
The dress is splendid, the aesthetics and refinement of these years is stunning…
Real delight for the eyes
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Thank you Lucy! Have a great Saturday xx